As a designer with around 15 years experience working with clients both large and small. Being an Intern, In-House designer, and a Creative Director a time or two. I have have come across my share of problems that get most feathers pretty ruffled, and for good reason too! You know those times that make you feel left out on a limb, or feeling like a tool. I have been there, many-a-times! I have experienced that frustrating feeling of disbelief on so many occasions.
Don't you fret little friend, it will never change... it's just part of the game. Let me share with you how you can deal with it. It is not meant to discourage you from the path of being a professional designer, but rather to remind you that you're not alone.
First and foremost you are in control of your mind.
Look yourself in the mirror and repeat after me,
"SUCK IT UP BUTTERCUP"
Laugh at yourself and everything will be all better.
well... Not really... But it's a great start!
I have literally showed up for interviews with brands that dominate in their industries, to wait in the lobby for 45 minutes after my scheduled interview time, which I was 30 minutes early to already. To then not even meet with the person/s I was supposed to interview with. Talk about a serious let down. I had rearranged my day, pushed paying client work to the side and even drove an hour and a half to the headquarters to make this happen. The feelings of excitement that quickly burst like a bubble in a cactus field. It sucked and I had to drive home holding back tears of straight frustration. Questioning my every word, my attire and posture... everything.
Always remember you are interviewing them as well, they might not be a good fit for you and that's ok. At the end of the day you need to be happy where you work. Things happen and it can be out of everyones control... Roll with the punches
I have spent 11 months on projects lead by a "VP of Marketing" that was never around, and changed project goals each time he did come around. It's like working in a circus ring. In the end you just have to put your all into the project, do what you know is your best and leave it at that. Fingers will be pointed and blame will be pushed, you can always laugh inside thinking that's three more pointed back at you. Honestly though stay true to what I call the C-SQUARED... Be confident in knowing you are more than competent to finish the task at hand. {Confident and Competent = C-SQUARED}
Don't even get me started on the non paying clients, or the fake internships, the offer of ownership to something that doesn't even exist yet. The salesman telling you how your kerning is off, or even the project you're supposed to do for free so they can see your work... (portfolio?).
I know I have missed a ton, please comment below and share your stories, would love to learn from you as well.
You see the life of a designer is not all sparkles and pretty pictures. Their is real life shit that you have to learn to deal with in order to make it in this industry. Above all you have to get a thick skin, for me it's about keeping a smile and just doing what I can to make the client happy. Keep a hockey puck around with the words "Harden up Fucker", sometime I need a reminder too.
You have to understand that opinions are like a$$holes... everyone's got em, they all stink and you can't run away from em! (lol, I added that last part!!). Seriously though, you have to be open to critiques, even by people without the ability to clearly explain what they do or do not like. Know that you can not possibly make everyone happy and that's ok. It will be the one of the hardest thing to face-off with during your design career. It will also be what makes you a better designer, it will make you dive deep to be the best you. Choose to loose the bad attitude towards the unexpected design life fails and you will go much farther in your career.
A wise man once said "Don't worry, Be Happy!"